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Wow, these days its hard to find people who have been married 20 years straight let alone over 50 years. Well, my parents just celebrated 53 years in June. And it is amazing to see two people sharing their lives with Love and Commitment like they do.

Dont get me wrong when I was a young boy I remember my parents had some pretty intense fights and arguments. They had a few up and downs just like everybody else. But they always reconciled , and I think the most important ingredient that has kept their Marriage thriving (and many others for that matter) is keeping a strong line of communication open.

Being able to communicate with your significant other is paramount , and in the long run it will determine if your relationshipwill  last or not. That is just the bottom line !

I see so many couples who get into fights and arguments and they NEVER resolve that particular dispute. They end up coming back together,  but they never completly resolve the issue they were arguing over. So what happens in this case ? Well, resentment swells up inside the individuals  but they bury it and over time it just festers inside them. This puts a strain on the relationship and will no doubt cause problems down the road.

My wife and I have arguments and disagreements on a regular basis. But we rarely go to bed without resolving the issues we were arguing over.

Also I think it is important that at least one person should be the so called ‘hero’ in the relationship when hard times do occur. This is something that Dr. Phil has mentioned and it makes sense. When two people in a relationship start to really get heated over an issue its important that at least one person reigns sensibility back in and keep a cool head. That person should realize that it is not worth it to get all heated up and that the relationship is more important than that. Remeber cool heads always prevail.

Anyway, I think everyone can take a lesson from my parents. And realize there will be tough times in any relationship. But that a  belief that the relationship and love you have for your significant other will ALWAYS outweigh any issues that may arise between the two of you !! 

Hey guys. Me, wifey, and the kids are heading into vacation mode here in the next few days. I am looking forward to it. We just celebrated our 3rd anniversary a few weeks ago.  Time really flies !!

Anyway, I get asked alot on how I met my wife. So you really want to know ?? Well the fact is  I met my wife 5 years ago at get this…….. a BAR !! Thats right one of those places that are supposed to be no good for nothing except getting drunk at and hooking up for one night stands !!

I think many people would be surprise on how many human beings have met their spouses at Bars. The number is probably higher than you think.

And this is really an important point that I have talked about  in the past  on this Blog and that everyone should make note of. That is do not write off someone just because you met them at a place that is historically frowned upon to meet people…….like Bars and Clubs !!   Some of the happiest Marriages have been initially one night stands that turned into  serious relationships.

Now dont get me wrong. I think that there may be other places that could be better options than meeting people  bars. Places like Church, via friends, via family, dating services etc.. But just remember to all you single people. When you go to a singles bar and think that there are NO quality people there , what does that say about you ?? In other wards there can and often is quality people at these places just like you !! So dont be so quick to write off people at that saturday night honky tonk.

You just might be writing off your future wife or husband. 

Just something to think about.

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Hey guys, just got back from eating out at a really nice restaraunt. We had the two kids with us and we didnt even plan to make an evening of it. We went to Target and Kohls to get some diapers and clothes for our daughters. Its our 3rd Wedding anniversary today. I bought my Wife 3 dozen White Roses delivered to our doorstep. She was totally thrilled. We got married in Maui in April 2007.

Anyway, we decided coming back that we would stop off at a local restaraunt at the last minute. Well, the girls were so cooperative throughout the whole meal. We stayed over an hour. I had a  basket of hot , delicious hot wings for an appetizer. My Wife had a house salad for her appetizer. For the main course I had 9oz of grilled sirloin steak along with a baked potato and vegetable medley. It was really. really good. My wife had peppercorn steak and veggies. She loved it too.

We had great conversation and Kenzie our oldest daughter seemed to enjoy hersewlf eating her red apple. We loved it !! 

You know what guys ?? I forgot how simple things like taking your partner or date out to eat can be so fulfilling. It can set a great mood between two people. So when you get a chance take a date or loved one out to a decent restaraunt and just enjoy yourselves.

I will just leave you with this…………….Please guys whatever you do in Life ALWAYS take time to smell the roses and just enjoy everyday you have on this Earth.

I found that out tonight. How simple things can really add to your Life. Being with Family or people you care about is really the most important thing in Life. Thats what Life is all about.

Carpe Diem, folks !!

Hey guys. As many of you already know I have been in a serious relationship for the last 5 years and incidentally 3 of those 5 years I have been Married to that person !!

And some may also know that I am over 12 years older than my Wife.

You may ask has this ever caused any friction or awkward moments in our Relationship ??

Well, honestly it never has. We both keep in good shape physically and we both have similar interests in Life and both have compatible demeanors when interacting with each other. I am cant speak for all couples out there by the age difference has not been a detriment in our relationship.

There are some people who will always say that you should be in close age to your potential mate. You know what, I dont disagree with that. I think if you can find someone that is close to age to you and that you t ruly Love and want to grow old with then you have the best case scenario.

But here is the thing : Love is unpredictable and you cant always pick who you fall in love with. So if you are really into someone and they happen to be 10 or 15 years older than you, dont write them off because of this difference. You may regret it some day if you do.

Remember, many people in this World go through Life without ever finding their true Love.

So if you by chance do find that true Love, whether they be 100 years old and purple polka dot with pink hair, please consider the deeper things about that person and just go with your gut feeling  and how they make you feel.

Life is too short not too !!