Archive for October, 2011
Its hard to find Love in this Time and Age !!
I met my wife just over 6 years ago and it was in a bar in downtown Nashville.
I was in my mid to late thirties when I met her. I thought at that time I would never find love and just relegated myself to a confirmed bachelor the rest of my life. OH my how things can really change. Now we have two beautiful daughters and we both are still madly in love with each other.
Its funny how things can work out that way for you. During my marriage, I have also gone on to create several blogs that interest me including one for effective weight loss and how to speak spanish !
Anyway, I know many of my friends have tried to find love but just were unsuccessful in finding their true soul mate. These are friends in their late fifties and early sixties. It is sure not easy, but I think if one wants to have a full committed relationship it can be accomplished in one way or the other !
First of all, you have to get yourself out there and be vulnerable. I am talking about putting all your self doubts and questions about yourself on hold. You cannot be afraid of failure. If one relationship does not work out then there will be always a potential one around the corner. So in some ways it can be looked at as a numbers game.
Secondly, you need to exhaust all avenues in pursuing love. My brother who is 52 years old does not have anyone. No love , never married, no kids etc..etc… !! The main reason he has no one is that he never pursued love at Church, at a Dating service, at Bars, at singles meeting etc..etc.. He hasn’t done any of this. Thus he will probably be alone the rest of his Life. So sad but easily avoidable !!
If you have this attitude you will NEVER find that soul mate !! PERIOD !!
So you folks looking for Love and haven’t found it , keep trying and put yourself and your spirit out there. Be vulnerable and you will be surprised that you just might find the person who you spend the rest of your Life with !! 