TV Show The Bachelor – Is it a Good Way to Meet Your Soulmate ??
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Okay me and the wifey have been intently watching ‘the Bachelor’ on TV the last 2 months. Jake is the single guy (or bachelor) who is looking for the women of his dreams and his potential wife with this Show.
It makes for very good entertainment with all the caddy cat fighting between the women contestants. And there is much drama especially as one of the female contestants strays a little bit and engages with a relationship with one of the producers of the show. Who incidentally gets fired and the girl is asked to leave the show. Its all good fun.
Seriously though, I have a real problem with the premise of the Bachelor. And especially the bachelor himself, Jake. Jake goes on about how serious he is in finding his wife among these women contestants.
Jake narrows his choice down to four women and proclaims over and over how in Love he is with them or that he is falling in love with ALL four of these women.
And on top of this the Show has excerpts where he goes to each one of the girls’ hometowns to meet their parents. Well, each time it shows Jake running up to each woman and hugging them and telling them how much he has missed them. And that he cares so much for them, kissing them with a deep tongue. And this is just right after he did this with two of the other women before.
This really makes me and my Wife feel like puking !! Its sickening.
Honestly, I ask you all out there is this a natural way to fall in love with that special someone ??
To go from one person to the next and tell them the exact same thing you told another person the day before……….how much you miss them, kissy, kissy, lovey doey etc..etc.. ??
Well, just a little bit of advice to you guys and gals out there…The Bachelor is good entertainment but that is about it. This type of format is not realistic nor natural in the Romance department. I would be careful in your journey to find Love and make a note to NOT look at it as a numbers game .
Look for one person and one person only to share your affection for. NOT a whole slew of people.
But thats Hollywood for you !!
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