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Okay I know with the advent of the Internet in the last 15 years we have seen some pretty horrid stories about people running into some pretty nasty predicaments on the Worldwide web.

Yes, you know what I am talking about. Girl meets a guy online then decides to meet him in person and he ends up assaulting her or even worse.

Sometimes less serious things have happened which still has just intensified the scrutiny that people have about meeting potential mates on the Internet.
One popular thing is a person meets another person online and they decide to meet in person. Well, when the two meet one of them finds out to their disappointment that the other was inaccurate and even deceitful in describing themselves online.

Of course this makes everyone leery and I guess there is justification in this.

But lets not judge a whole group by just a few bad apples. Actually there are thousands upon thousands of cases that have occurred where two people meet online and then end up meeting in person and fall in love. And in some instances they do actually get Married.

But if you do socialize on the Internet there are a few things you should follow that will help you have a more pleasant experience and a safer one too.

1. NEVER give out too much personal info. to anyone you are talking and socializing on the Web with. We are talking about things like your Address, phone number, your full name, families names etc..etc..
Its just not safe and at least wait til you converse with this person in a more transparent environment ; minimum being at least via Phone.

2. DO NOT take everyone for face value. Even the nicest sounding person can be a scum undercover when conversing thru email or IM !! The internet provides a facade for many people who will use it to exploit you and do so for their own gains.

3. If you do decide to meet the individual in person please bring along a friend when you go out with them. Or at least agree to meet the person in a very public place with crowds of people around. NEVER go over to that persons house and NEVER let them come over to yours.

Basically just use common sense and you should be fine.

Like I have always said meeting thru the Internet can be a Medium that produces successful results in finding a romantic match for you. I personally know of several friends who are in committed relationships with people they met online.

So follow a few of these points above and just enjoy the fact that the Internet is such an accessible and efficient way to meet new and interesting people.

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Subm. Go Articles 02-02-10

It challenges the mind how awesome the World Wide Web is. Clash that with the eternally complex concept of love, and it becomes all the more incomprehensible, doesn’t it? Is that why single online dating is as proliferate as it is complicated, nowadays? Or is it simply because given any medium or channel, man simply wants to find a happy ending?

Single online dating is not that complicated, really. But just like everything else, dating and match making has its own cyberspace counterpart. And it’s relatively easier to meet lots of people on the internet than manually. Single online dating even brings about the advent of meeting a partner from halfway across the globe. There are a few things to remember though.

Just like it is in reality, common sense remains indispensible in cyberspace. In fact it is even more so because it’s easier to fall prey to malicious individuals through all these social networking sites as well as single online dating. A good sense of judgment keeps you away from such people.

Also, keep in mind that rules in reality apply, that is to say, keep the set of values you’d apply to dating in reality when it comes to online dating. And never take that little tingling feeling of doubt for granted. It doesn’t hurt to be careful, and when looking for a happy ending, a tinge of caution averts disaster.

In conclusion, single online dating has its share of advantages and disadvantages, pros and cons. In the end, it all boils down to how you go on your way.